bohat see baatain mehsoos karnay se ehm maloom hoti hain halan k itni ehm hoti naheen hain. lihaza mehsoos na karo aur hassas na bano. jesay bv ka rukh phair lena. is ko bohat zyada mehsoos naheen karna chahye. bv k sath apnay huqooq may ashiqana raho (jesay koi kaam naheen kar rahi to maaf kar do, rooth gai to khud hee mana lo...) lekin shariat k mamlay haakimana raho (jesay bv kahay k tasveer wali shirt, ya plastic k kuttay billi walay khilonay lanay ki farmaish karay to ye na mano). baqi agar is k ilawa kisi aur baat par agar bv ne naraz ho kar rukh phair lya aur phir jawab may aap ne bhee moo phair lya to aap ne shetan k lye darwaza khol dya. shetan ko khush honay ka moqa mat do aur Hadees pak may hai k "aurat terhi pasli ki hai in ko seedha karo ge to ye toot jaingi" aur aik aur hadees may hai k "ye aurtain kam aqal hoti hain". Lihaza in ki baaton ko maaf kar dena chahye, ye naheen k ye baat naheen karti to mai bhee baat nahee karoonga. bhai jahan bv itnay kaam tumharay karti hai wahan kabhee agar wo naraz ho gai to maaf kar do aur mana lo aur pyar karo. wo bhee to apna ghar baar, behn bhai, maa baap chhor kar aai hai aur tumhari har khidmat karti hai. lihaza ye mat socho k us ne mujhe naheen manaya to mai bhee naheen manaoonga aur seedha kar doonga. ye shetan ki bohat bari chaal hoti hai.
