tamanna-e-gunah bhee haram hai

tamanna-e-gunah bhee to haram hai. yani ye sochna ya kehna k "Ay Kash agar wo mil jati ya mil jata to yoon toon karta" ye bhee haram hai. Tehqeeq-e-husn aur tafteesh-e-husn mar karo, warna gunah ho jaey ga. Tehqeeq-e-husn se murad k "larka hai ya larki" aur tafteesh-e-husn ye hai k "kali hai ya gori, kam khoobsoorat hai ya zyada khoobsoorat etc." Hazrat wala ne farmaya k:

na gori ko dekh na kali ko dekh
usay dekh jis ne inhain rand bakhsha

asbab-e-gunah se agar door na rahay to bach naheen saktay. ye ALLAH ki muhabbat aur ishq-o-mastiaan usi waqt tak ki hain jab tak asbab-e-guna se doori hai, jesay he asbab samnay atay hain to phir koi malfooz yaad naheen ata. sheta mismerism karta hai, 4 anay k husn ko 16 ana kar k dikhata hai, ghair mehram aurton par zyada light marta hai. isi lye asbab-e-gunah se 3 tarha ki doori ikhtiar karo:

1. aankh se doori k haseeno ko mat dekho

2. dil se doori, yani k dil may gunahon k khayalat ko mat pakao (na mazi k khayal la kar dil may mazay lo aur na mustaqbil ki koi scheme banao)

3. jism k aitibar se bhee doori ikhtyar karo. Hazrat wala ne farmaya k gunah k moqay par jis ki firar kamzor ho gee wo zaroor qarar karay ga. isi lye haseeno se door bhago aur ye sher parho:

jab wo agaey samnay na-beena bun gaey
jab wo hut gaey samnay se beena bun gaey

husn-e-fani pay agar tu jaey ga
ye munaqqash sanp hai dus jaey ga